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I got close to my closed-up boyfriend on a weekend away; now his heart has closed up again

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Question - (3 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *impleMemories writes:

last weekened me and my friends had a sleepover up at her cabin. she brought her boyfriend and mine along with and it was really suprising her parents let us. well me and my boyfriend got really close... closer then i've even been to him. he let all the walls down around his heart but when we came home after that weekened he seems to have built them even higher. i need a guy's opinion on this... what's he thinking?

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A female reader, Emilie United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

Emilie agony auntHey,since you've come home maybe he hasn't had found a time to have a heart to heart. You're still close but he's having a lil' trouble emotionally, it sounds. I know it can make you feel quite alone when he becomes quiet, just give him time, love and reassure him. You could try having him over for tea. I find food always loosens my guy up, he seems more comfortable talking with a full stomach lol ;). I hope it all works out well, good luck :)xxx

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A female reader, edsbabygirl United States +, writes (3 August 2007):

edsbabygirl agony auntyou dont need a guys opinion, you just need to know his comfort zone. Is he comfortable talking to you about certain things? HOw long have you been going out? Give it time and you will see changes. I hope you and him can talking deeply someday hun. Best Wishes.

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