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writes:Can anyone help me out please. I am the type of women that will give all of my love when i get into a relationship. Well a little while ago i started dating this guy and we hit it off right from the start. The thing about it is that he never really has alot of time on his hands as he says. He is in promotions and things like that. Well I told him that if he thinks that it's going to be all about sex then he has the wrong women and he got very upset at me. So then i thought that i would just let him call me but then he go mad bcause I did call him I think he has someone else should I let him go and move on to the next or should I just be patience and wait to c what could happen please let me know...
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Never give your all in any relationship because if he breaks your heart , you still have some left.
If you give 100% ,then your heart will be shattered into many pieces when they leave you ,which they always do.
If he has no time for you , you are only his option .
Better to find a guy whose priority is you . Why choose the second best ?
Don't waste your time planting your seeds into rocky hard grounds. They won't grow or even if they managed to germinate , the plant will be weak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): He doesn't sound serious or engaging enough, so I would let him do more on his part before you give him anymore chances. Let him show you he's actually got time for you other than sex, and if he doesn't give you time together, leave him, or at least give him as little as he gives you, and maybe he'll understand after seeing what the other side looks like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): I would start to look around but if he doesn't come round soon then it's time to move on. Because to tell you the truth, there ate a lot of men who are only after sex and if you don't want that, don't settle for it!!! Mr right is out there somewhere, just remember to never give up!!!
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reader, RockyMountain74  +, writes (23 March 2010):
I think that you should just let this one go. We tend to hold on to things for too long and realize in the end that it truly wasn't meant to be. I think that he might have gotten offended that all he was looking for was sex. Maybe he was maybe he wasn't. He may be seeing someone else but were you guys exclusive?
I don't think that he is all that into you, sorry. Move on, show him that you deserve better. You teach people how to treat you so teach him not to treat you that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): It seems to me that the two of you are seeking different levels of commitment and understanding of each other. I would say based off this post that if you truly don't feel he can or will put forth effort towards you now, or in some near future, then it would be in Your best interest to find one more willing or prepared to provide that reciprocation. - hope that helps in some way - apologies for being so brief
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