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writes:i'm a 21 year old male, who's still a virgin, and don't know what to do, i'm in this relationship and my girl makes fun of me that am a virgin, all my friends make fun of me that am a virgin and because of that i get lonely and depress and i just don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): Dont listen to other people. You should not let the fact that you are 21 and still a virgin be a problem for you. I'm 23 and still a virgin, but I'm proud of it. I know sooo many people who lost their virginity at a young age and regret it to this day. Don't let anyone rush you into it. Have sex when you are ready; otherwise, it will mess with your head for a long time if you let people teasing you rush you into something you aren't ready for.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (7 March 2012):
 Leave the girl, she's a crap girlfriend, she doesn't show you enough love or respect. Stop talking about your sex life, it's nothing to do with your friends. Don't mention your virginity again. Nobody has to know, it's something that's private to you. Even when you eventually meet a woman to have sex with, she won't know, there are no signs that a man is a virgin, unlike women they don't suffer pain or bleed. Your friends have got too much time on their hands and have nothing better to do. If you ignore their noise and don't respond, they'll get bored and talk about something else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2012): Hi,
What shocks me most in your question is the attitude of your friends and girlfriend. They are SO disrespectful. You're a virgin, and that's YOUR choice. My advice would be talk to your girlfriend and to tell her to stop teasing you. If she doesn't get it, just dump her. You deserve better. Good luck!
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (7 March 2012):
 Well, honestly, if your girlfriend is teasing you about being a virgin, she obviously doesn't respect you, or even have enough sexual interest in you to want to change that!
You dont need someone like that in your life.
Tell her that you may be a virgin, but she doesn't respect you enough to accept that, like if you're waiting for marriage, then she doesn't respect your beliefs at all.
And if she's just not being sexual with you at all, she's either a hypocrite, or she doesn't have any sexual attraction to you.
Tell her those things, and see what she says in response. That will determine wether or not you two are right for eachother.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (6 March 2012):
 First thing you've got to do is have nik-nik with a girl, some time, so you can cast OFF that dreaded label of "virgin"....
After you do THAT, you can expect your life to be perfect..
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