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writes: I am 45 and my partner is 28. He says he loves me and our age does not bother him. But he is not very compassionate and when I am upset he does not try to make me feel better. Our sex live is not what I want it to be. We may only have sex once a week. Andit is great when we do. He says he is t tired most of the time. I feel like he thinks of sex as a chore. I wonder why when I try and talk to him about it, we always get in a fight. Reply to this Question
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reader, adamfeck +, writes (10 January 2007):
 Perhaps he is genuinely tired and does not feel up to the task. Still if you really find yourself 'in the mood' you could help him relax and then you take the reigns and do most of the hard work, perhaps it will work him up an appetite of his own, in which case let him take charge! It could just been down to your lifestyle so with a few minor adjustments you might find he summons just that little bit of special energy for you.
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reader, kath +, writes (10 January 2007):
 your using all your energy on arguing you need to talk or better make mad passionate love!! maybe he doesnt have a high sex drive and you need to input a deeper sensation into his way of thinking. you dont say how long you have been together but if you know what makes him tick then thiers your starting point. make the one night you have a night to remember plus him wanting more not you. if however his sexdrive still doesnt reach yours you can allways find a sex shop with lots of things to help you both. good luck x
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