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writes:I have been with my guy on and off for almost a year. He’s ALWAYS been amazing in bed. I am VERY satisfied with what he has to offer. Only problem is I have some issues with myself which really makes sex with difficult. (On my fault) I am very self conscious about my body. I don’t think I have ever had sex with fully unclothed. I have always preferred to keep my shirt on. I feel I shelter myself and hold back from a lot because im scared of what he may think or how I might act. He has always wanted to do oral on me but I have only let him once but made him stop soon after he started. Not because it didn’t feel good, but I just kind of felt embarrassed. Another issue I have is being on top. I feel like I can’t get into the grove of the things and I kind of feel he’s probably not enjoying it. So we pretty much stick to him on top, him from behind or oral for him. He’s made comments that he wants me to try this or that, and even made comments to my friends when we got on the subject of sex that I don’t or wont try this or that. I really don’t know what my issue is. Any advice? Reply to this Question |
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reader, spanna  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 i know exactly how you are feeling i felt exactly the same with my ex boyfriend, but now with my current boyfriend i have no issues at all. i think it was partly to do with my own selfconfidence and partly coz my boyfreind at the time was quite high maintenence which made me even more self concious about myself. does you boyfriend tell you what he likes bout you? tells you how muc he loves you? i think the fact he commented on your sex lives to your friends is not a good sign especially in front of you. thats like he is trying to embarrass you into it make you feel bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): I don't know how to help you overcome it, but I just want to let you know that you aren't alone. I suffer from the same problems.
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