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writes:I fancy two different people. My friends told both of them that I fancy them. I didn't really want them to but anyway, the first guy is sometimes horrible to me but I know he's only joking. When my friends told him that I fancied him he said "I know" which was weird because no one told him before. His friends stand a bit in the way of him and I because he seems a bit different around them. My science teacher even thinks he likes me.The second guy is funny and a bit weird but he's nice. I don't know if he would take me seriously though.please help, I can't decideanon. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): i think the first one likes you....the one that 'horrible' you but im guessing its in a joking/affectionate way. Im a guy and when i was in secondary school i used to be like that i used to kind of mock the girls i liked in joke kind of way or be horrible to them. i guess its a kind of defence mechanism or some way of showing attention....the bottom line is it doesnt work cause girls dont get it...go for the first one although be careful about how he acts different round mates might pose a problem in future
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reader, TracyPrinces +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Hi. now hearing wat position ur in it is really hard to decide, and take it seriuosly and think alot, which one likes you more, to find out maybe do a little test or say to dem convince me see how dey react and responde, also make sure you don't pick the wrong guy because if you do, u can't take time back and in the end you'll be even more tangled up in this situation. the first guy might actually fancy you alot, he said he knew that you liked him he could of known beeacuse the way u act towards him, or if u stare at him most of the tome or even jsut stare at him he might of seen you fo that, and must of clicked on but he might of not bin definatly sure, i think its good you told them both, but then on the other hand could be painful because the guy u won;t chose will be hurt n then as you like both of the guys u will feel upset. Best of luck, chose the right one, see who knows you better or who has the same taste as you. But definatly tryi the convincing technique, it always works. Best of luk
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): get to know them both better before you make the decision. if you're still unsure, you still have time to see who shares more in common, or who you could just see yourself better with. but keep in mind- just because you fancy them, doesn't mean they fancy you, or like you for that matter. don't play either on unless you want to, but not BOTH AT THE SAME TIME. that won't do you ANY favours. once you muster up the estimate on who you like best, go for it if you want, but you might find out things you may not have wanted to hear and end up liking neither, so don't get your expectations too high that no matter what you'll end up with one of them- and don't lead on both at the same time like i said before. it's like cheating on yourself, and it'll only hurt them if they find out.
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