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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Between the ages of 12 and 15 I had a couple of childish relationships that last about a week, and not much happened other than kissing and holding hands. About this time last year when I was 15 I ended up falling for my friend's ex, and we've had a very intense on/off relationship ever since (currently off). This was a massive part of my life; we became so incredibly close, we knew everything about eachother and helped eachother through some really rough times. But it fell apart because it was just too much to deal with, it all got a bit too heavy. Now it's over I feel the need to be with someone again, we broke up in October but only stopped fooling around together 2-3 weeks ago, because now he has another serious girlfriend. The problem is, other people my age are generally still having very teenaged relationships that last a couple of weeks and not much really happens, and that doesn't interest me anymore. The relationship I've just left was more adult and felt almost like a marriage, and I don't want another one of those until i'm mature enough to hold it together. So where do I go from here?
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reader, sexylinz  +, writes (10 December 2006):
 why dont you try just being single for a while. see how u feel after a few months. that will give you time to mature a bit more then you will know exactly what type of relationship you want. there is nothing wrong with being single and as you are so young i wouldn't waste my time on meaningless relationships. hope this helps.
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