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writes:Hi I am a 16 year old boy. There is this girl who I quite like however I am too nervous to ask her out. The other thing is that I have not seen her in quite a few weeks. I don't want to ruin our friendship by making her uncomfortable. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): If you think you've got a shot with her, then GET ROMANTIC NOW.
I know it's easier and less threatening to just stay friends and get closer to her. But this is where you'll lose out.
You'll be getting to know her the safe way, and some other guy will start getting to know her - while also getting in her pants right from the beginning, not "once he knows her better." She'll end up sticking you in the friend zone and screwing guys that she's a lot less comfortable with than you. (Then she'll wanna tell you about it and ask for your advice.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): Don't worry about it, friends are overrated so if you ruin your friendship you can always rely on your other friends for comfort, or find a new sexy girl to be your platonic favourite girl friend. So i say, buy a nice bottle of wine (or 2) and after a few glasses with her just go in for the kill, if shes a mean chick she'll be down, if shes not mean then just blame the wine and get on with being friends. If thats the case, try again when your a bit older, girls generally get easier with age.
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