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*nonymous19
writes:Hey aunts. Ok so me and this guy have known each other for 4 yrs and we really good friends. At first we liked each other but due to certain things and people it ended. He knows that i still like him. Not long ago i stopped talking to him coz he lied. Afterwards we talked again and he seems even nicer than before. He said that i should make a list of things i didn't do and he'll do 'em with me. He even said "luv ya". What does this all mean? Even though he knows i like him i don't think that he'll ask me out. Advice? Thoughts? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Nycee25  +, writes (29 December 2008):
He sounds like he may be taking advantage of your feelings by expecting that you will give him sex, and the sneaky part is...is that he is trying to make you request it like he's doing you a favor. If he truly liked you, after four years, he would have already shown his vulnerable side to you—you shouldn’t have to be unsure if he’ll ask you out. Instead he lies and subsequently he requests sex. Sounds like a looser; girl kick him to the curb. You are worth more than that!
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reader, honestheart  +, writes (28 December 2008):
He seems very selfish. If he lied he should be the one writing a list of ways to say sorry not you writing a list of things you haven't done. This all sounds very selfish on his part and i'd be very cautious to trust him.
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