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writes:I'm confused about what to do. I like this guy. He sits behind me in one of my classes and he seems interested in me, though it's hard to tell since we've only know each other for a few days. But there's a guy I'm not with but am attached to anyways. We are in a relationship without a title. So we're together but not in name. I'm starting to think that I want to be with someone else, like the guy that sits behind me, but I'm not sure what to do. I can't see if liking him is a passing fancy or something real or if I want to stay with who I'm "with". What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (31 August 2010):
 It's probably not going to go away until you find out this guy in your class has a girlfriend or you actually talk to and get to know him. You say you were together at one point, but no you're not so I don't see what's holding you back besides your emotions. I don't see the harm in talking to this other guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn many ways I am. We were happy and "together" at one point. I just want to get out of it but I tend to make hasty decisions and I can't tell if this is a gonna go away or if I'm really done done.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (31 August 2010):
If you're not obligated to the other guy, then by all means tap that guy on the shoulder in your class and ask him his name. Being in a relationship without the title, sounds like trouble in the long run. You're either together as in boyfriend/ girlfriend or you're not. There's no in between honey, and if you find yourself falling into that gray area get out of it.
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