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I don't feel confident going on top during sex! Advice please!

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Question - (18 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I dont feel confident going on top during sex, I know this sounds stupid but I feel like I'm doing it wrong and that maybe my partner doesnt enjoy it and will think I'm rubbish at it, please can you give me some tips?

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A male reader, unknown2u United States +, writes (19 January 2012):

Hon, it's not about technique. It's about the visual. Don't think about what you look like, think about what he's seeing, which is a completely different thing. Even better, just enjoy what you're doing. That's the best turn on there is.

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A female reader, Livvey01 United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2012):

Tell your partner to explain what feels good for him and what doesn't and go from there. OR just don't go on top. There's lots of other positions you can try.

Remember there's nothing wrong with being honest and speaking to your partner about this.

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A female reader, Phunky  +, writes (18 January 2012):

Phunky agony auntwell you're female and im not experienced in sex im a viring but ... you just have a hole and he comes in it theres nothing that he wouldnt enjoy if he's having orgasms that's a good sign and for tips maybe some foreplay lots of kisses making sounds moaning I guesse I hope someone else answers you better Than I do

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