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I discovered my husband enjoys porn. Now I'm going off sex. How can I rebuild it?

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Question - (8 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A age 41-50, * writes:

Okay. So, after I discovered my hubby enjoys watching internet porn, a little too much, I have not felt sexy...at all. I have accepted my hubby's hobby, because it's just who he is, so that isn't my concern as much as my scarred sex ego. Im only 25, and have been told frequently that I am sexy, but it just isn't doing it after my discovery. This goes way deeper than shopping and a makeover! I enjoy sex, and before my discovery, was partaking in it with him every day, and I don't want to as much now, so how do I go about finding my sexy ego again so I can rebuild my fantastic sex life?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008):

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huh. good point. I explained that without the "love and romance" factor, sex is no longer a spiritual bond between the 2 of us, and in fact, I was feeling like meat. He was hiding the porn thing from me, and I caught him with his hand in the cookie jar-or other places, lol! I know I can do better, perhaps I should. Thanks for the help guys, you rock!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

Tell him not to look at that stuff around you. Eventually after not seeing him do it, or hearing about him doing it, you'll get over it and go back to how you once were. I am speaking from experience.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

you need to find a man that doesn't see you as meat. This may mean suppressing your sexual desires until a deep relationship is built up, then you can be as sexy as you want. Your behaviour by being just a sexual creature is fuelling is porn addiction.

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