A
male
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:hi,i am feeling a little embaressed abt sharing thisproblem..well,here it goes.last year it was my first time with my girlfriend but not hers,and while undergoing physical attachment i didnt feel,u knw wht i mean?but seriously i love my girlfriend whether i did or did not enjoy the SEX... and no i am not a gay, ...plz i am in real jinx.i want to feel what she felt.(nothing is wrong with my penis though) help me!!
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reader, Kathh  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Poor you, please don't feel worried. All the pressure is on the male to make things great - thinking back to when I first became sexually active I used to just lie there and wait for them to do all the work. I distinctly remember telling one chap to hurry up because I needed a wee!I'm sure you are able to masterbate and have climaxed before so you know you can. Why not make a time when you know your going to be alone and offer her a massage with some oils (ensure they are suitable for use with condoms) In a more relaxed environment you might find it more enjoyable, use lube as well and just generally relax and have fun, if your at all concerned you can either look online or visit your local library for some books on sex to give you some ideas as well.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (29 November 2008):
 Hi,
I think being your first time you were probably just anxious the more you and your girlfriend are intimate with each other you will become less anxious so many things will be running through your head right now and that is perfectly normal i would just put it down to first time nerves.
Next time try and make the situation beforehand a little more relaxing for both of you don't rush it take time to explore other things before the big event sometimes that helps to relax you more and with time you will have nothing to worry about hope this helped you!
Ginalolabridga
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