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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i like this guy for about 3 years now. hes my best friend and we have such a good relationship. we both had times where he liked me and i liked him, but never got the chance to tell eachother. now he is with this girl and have been dating for a while now. eventhough he is dating someone else we are still really really close, becuase of that i cant move on. since i cant move on, i cant have closure and i cant tell him my feelings cuz we would can possibly lose our friendship and i dont want that to happen. what should i do??? any help on my situation???
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reader, answeringtruth  +, writes (19 March 2009):
i know this might sound silly, but have you read the book "Where Rainbows End" by Cecilia Ahern. It really reminds me of your situation. You say that he is your best friend. I believe that if you have had thse feelings for himm, he must have known. I think that you need to tell him how you feel. i kno it might be hard but i thinks its something you need to do. may be write him a letter bur dont give it to him. write it all down on a piece of paper and then decide if you want to give it to him. if he really is your best friend he will listen 2 you and be honest with you. if you find out that he doesnt have feelings for then i think, even though it will hurt, you will finally be able to move on. and once you do, you can be best friends again. Jus try it. Let us know what happens xx
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