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kassie
writes:i spent the night over my friends house for 2 weekends straight.a lot of dudes came over one was cute, but i ended up having sex with one of them we only did it 5 times together,he was the best sex i have ever had! he really likes me but i think about him every second and even dream about him am i crazy?, while we were having sex he looked into my eyes for a long time he made me nervous,does he think of me like i do him bcuz i havent spoken to him since? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Kay.Kay + ♥, writes (25 March 2008):
 Sorry darling,
I didn't read your question clearly.. the one you PRIVATE messaged me yesterday. I am so sorry, hun. grrrr, my glasses needs to come in already, lol.
Your Question was: HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT I WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM????
Let him know how you feel and I mean, be honest with him...
Next time, he tries to bust a move on you... back away and then tell him that you will no longer want to do anything sexual with him because you really do like him and that you hope to get to know him better; And also, hope that your friendship can bloom into something much more. Then ask him how he feels about you.
If you don't get the answer that you had hoped for then forget about him. there will be more and I mean... plenty of guys to date and are way more exciting sexual partners at that!
*HUGS* - Good luck, hun.
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reader, kassie +, writes (25 March 2008):
kassie is verified as being by the original poster of the question i think you guys are so right im go try to pursue a relationship with him if i can very soon bcuz i have never felt this way about no one before!
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (14 March 2008):
 You were one of many, honey. Get over it.
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reader, Kay.Kay + ♥, writes (14 March 2008):
Hi Kassie,
I am going to try to be as compassionate and try to choose my words wisely as I don't want to hurt your feelings in any way. Honestly, this guy may just be looking for some fun. I may be wrong though. Have you known this guy for a very long period of time?
If not, sleeping with someone in such a short amount of time before getting to know each other can cause a lot of heart aches if you're attached to the person and the other does not have any feelings for you at all.
Now, this rarely ever happens, but one night stands or many nights stands can actually lead to a real loving relationship depending on how strong the feelings are for one another.
If you do want to pursue a relationship with him then I would suggest for you to stop sleeping with him regardless of the fact, that he is the "greatest" sex partner ever! Get to know one another before jumping in the sack too quick. Most guys don't like that and perhaps, he was just testing to see if you would sleep with him before getting to know him. I am not, saying that you are easy or anything bad. You seem like you like this guy very much so I am just giving you my opinions. Whatever you decide to do .. make sure, you're happy and your happiness should matter the most.
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reader, Danixcuntxface +, writes (14 March 2008):
Sorry but i dont think he feels the same way. If he was crazy about you he would get your number.
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