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writes:Hello everyone, I am new in this website, so forgive me if I make mistakes. I am 23 years old and i am in a serious relationship for almost a year. i live with him since 6-7 months. Everything is great , he is always gentle, nice, loving, understanding. we almost never discuss, even when i yell at him, he does nothing and he listens to me and he never makes the same mistake. so the problem is, he never helps me when i have a monetary difficulty. He never bought me a present except for valentines day and he never does the shopping. He always pays when we eat outside but i just cant stand that he never shops. is it logical to marry such a guy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers. He doesnt know that a real gift (such as a dress or just shopping grocery or fruits) can make me happy or mean something to me. And i really dont have the courage to talk to him about it . i just want him to realize everything on his own. i hope it will work out this way
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Hmm... i know a lot of people will say " it doesnt matter if he treats you right" but it DOES.My boyfriend annoys me because he wants everything to be equal. But it annoys me because i'm a student and he has a good job and he never pays for much for me and doesnt seem to understand about my money difficulties. so therefore it is not equal if one person is having difficulty with money and the other isnt. i cant offer any advice other than to talk about it to him, but i know how annoying it can be.
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