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female
age
30-35,
*omolovescookies
writes:When my boyfriend of over a year gets really romantic ... i freeze up... I can respond to sexual prompts fine... he talks dirty, I talk dirty, he comes on to me, I come on to him...But when he says or does something just really sweet... I just freeze up and get heat flashes and butterflies and that choking feeling... vision blurs and all that nonsensical unexplainable side effects of loveBut what I usually do is say something weird... like to make a joke out of it, and then I'm thinking: that's not what I wanted to convey at alllll .... I just want to tell him how much I love him... . but I cant just always reply with: I love you~ .... er..can I? I want him to know that I really do appreciate those kinds of efforts he makes to make me feel special, and that he's special too.... but... geez.. I dont know the right words. I get tongue tied and usually end up physically hiding my face somehow Any Tips?
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reader, MamasLilFlowerChild +, writes (24 January 2012):
I say, write him a note! If you can't say exactly what you mean to him in person, write him a note. Or, you could facebook him or txt him what your feeling, eventually you will feel more comfortable with the situation! At least he will know how your feeling!!! And he'll love you even more than he already does! (:
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