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writes:How can I get over a guy?My case of break up might be one of the harshest. Before our 9th month 9 a few days ) he just said he didn't love me anymore and he broke up with me. I was left to cry there alone and sometimes now I still cry even thought it's been almost a month. While I cry he lives it up with his friends and parties, we haven't talked since the break up but im sure people have told him I'm doing horrid. ( to the fact He said he cared for me as a friend but he didnt want me as a friend... can someone explain? )I really wanna move on but I cant seem to and I dont know what else to do. Can someone please help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): Well for starters your only 16-17. I know it's horrible when people tell you that, as it makes it no better. But believe me he won't be the last. A breakup is very hard, i know! But the last thing you want to do is stay in and mope. I know its upsetting and all you want to do is cry and sit around the house feeling sorry for yourself, but it wont help. Get out with your friends, go shopping, go partying, just dont let your feelings end you up making out with another guy. If your ex see's or hears your out enjoying yourself and getting on with life, he may re-think his choice. (Thats if you want to get back with him) But just remember how hard and sudden he dropped you, if he does ask for you back, dont jump at the chance, make him wait. Good Luck Sweetie!
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reader, ldg99  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 What a jerk!I would say that you should go to your own parties
and live it up yourself.Why should he get to be happy because he stood you up?
Good luck, and try to have fun
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