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*amian littlefair
writes:i'm 18 and i just cant get things right at the moment i feel like everyone hates me which i know they do i'm trying to dry pots anhd my sister trys to grab a knife off me by kicking me in my privets she screems and shouts at me and my parents blame methe one thing i have wanted is a girl freind to love with all my heart and love i havent had sex before or either kissed a girl i try to talk to girls and they just laugh at me and they throw it back in my face i don't know what i'm doing wrong.can u help me please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Actually I disagree. Although it would be biast of me to say, but I cut and I think it helps because it takes away the mental pain replacing it with physical pain.
But it's not exactly healthy.
I know exactly what you mean, and I feel exactly the same as you and the world is crap but can life get any worse for you? Eventually you'll get married and have children, get a job own a house. Those will all mean more to you if you really want it, like you do now, instead of not going through it and having girlfriends all the time.
You'll be more considerate too. And the girls you talk to...they are small minority. Even if that happens to all the girls you talk to, there are some girls out there who aren't like that but exactly the same as you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Have you ever tried talking to a doctir about how you feel?
Sometimes just talking to a professional can help.
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reader, xxxxxhotstuffxxxxx +, writes (25 May 2008):
I would suggest you sit down with your parents and sister and try and talk things out. If that doesnt help maybe you should consider going for counselling which might just get you the help that you need. You say you need someone in life to love and share your thoughts and feelings with but all I can say to that is you just have to wait for that special someone to come along in your life so be patient and relax. In the meantime spend time with your friends. go out. enjoy life as it is now. When you leave the house leave your worries behind and enjoy life like you,ve never enjoyed it before. Do things you havent done before, have fun. Dont be afraid to do anything. Ask a girl out, come on whats the worst that can happen,you'll get laughed at, she'll turn you down. Think so what you.ve got your whole life ahead of you. Dont let anyone bring you down. EVER!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): You poor guy. Oh please don't cut yourself. I understand why you do it, but it never helps anything. Cutting yourself is a very serious cry for help.
I don't think everyone hates you. Maybe you are just misunderstood.
The girls you approach don't sound like very nice girls. I know that I would never laugh at someone just because they tried to talk to me.
You should talk to your parents about how depressed you're feeling. If not then a teacher.
Look at your arm. Make sure it is not infected. This is very serious. It's very dangerous.
You sounds like you could be suffering from depression. This is nothing to be ashamed of. Try talking to your parents about seeing a councellor.
Please seek help. Tel someone how sad you are at home.
Are you eatting well? Sometimes eatting unhealthily can help to make you feel sad. Try finding a hobby that has a little bit of exercise in it. You'll meet new people who like the same things you like and maybe you'll stop feeling so lonely.
Please write to me if you need more support. You don't have to feel as though you are alone. ok?
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