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I asked him out, he said no, and now it is rather awkward.....

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Question - (31 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I asked this guy out that I have liked for sometime. He declined but was very nice about it, and said that he would like to hang out more etc etc and not to take it personally. I told him I didn't do that sort of thing often so I was sorry if I may be a little awkward next time I saw him. We didn't see each other for a while, and then we bumped into one another. He merrily said hi and asked how I was, and I felt awkward and replied but was quite quiet. He left soon after and now appears to be ignoring me.

I'm not sure what to do. He assured me it would be ok, and I don't want to bring it up, or start bothering him. Any advice? Thanks.

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A female reader, patersonOx United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2011):

you should be thankful he was so nice about it maybe he ain't ready to focus on a girl right now maybe theres something behind not wanting to go out with you. but the boy could always change his mind, i am not saying hang arpund for him but keep your options open he might be ready for someone soon. don't act awkward around him as this will push him away as a friend and you'll never have the chance at all, talk to him and get closer with him and this might change his point of veiw, if you like him that much you shouldn't give up that fast.

hope this helps xxxx

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