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writes:I am a normal 20 year old guy and life is going well at the moment. I have one 'problem' though. I have crossdressed from a young age and get a sexual thrill from it. A couple of years ago I started watching gay porn and found myself very aroused by it. For a long time now, I have fantisized about dressing up as a girl and having sex with a man. This may sound wrong to alot of you but it sounds fun to me. I am however worried about taking such a huge step and how it will affect me and my sexuality. I have never had sex with a man before but really want to when I am horny. I guess I am just asking for some advice on whether it would be worth trying something new or not.
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reader, Sonjia  +, writes (5 December 2010):
I don't see anything wrong with pursuing your fantasy. Once you get the thrill of a penisa in your mouth you may find that doing guys is your thing. Or you may enjoy a girl also so being b- and dresing as a girl can be to your advantage.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (4 March 2010):
Actually... there are many straight men that like dressing in women's clothes too... so don't let the fact that you want to wear women's clothes think that that actually affects your sexuality.
It sounds like what it does to you is bring out the urge to be with a guy. Why not follow up on that? I think you'll find that it might actually help. Put up a craigslist ad. Explain that it's your first time.. and that you want/have to dress up in order for it to work for you. SOMEONE will reply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): 1st theres nothing wrong with cross dressing or wointing to have sex with a man if thats how you feel at the moment i have a friend who has been dressing in womans cloths for 30 odd years. bye the sounds of it Its a fetish of yours wearing womans clothes but did you allso feel that you woint to be a woman there are questions that you can ask yourself i did when i crossed dressed when i was your age.And why are you worrird about your sexuality just because you get turned on by the same sex does make it wrong its just you You decide what you woint to be.Go on the net as theres bound to be support groups out there for yourself i know this as my friend attends one where i live if you need to talk anymore send me a message your not alone best of luck and enjoy yourself
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