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writes:hello i have a big problem with my fiance.the problem is that i am angry all the time with silly things.my childhood was bad i dont love my mother. i think something is missing in my life. i cant be happy. I am always unhappy. I am always angry on something. what shall i do please help
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reader, shauna  +, writes (7 August 2007):
i also feel the same way, my childhood was screwed up too, my mom and dad are morons i don't associate with. im always trying to find things to fill that "hole" but nothing ever works, not money, not clothes, not even my fiance, if anything he aggravates it all more as well. even though he is trying to help me overcome it. i dont know, but i am getting there finally and it seems to be coming from just figuring out what is making me angry, coming to terms with it, (i was also molested by my uncle at age 12) and placing blame where it needs to be placed. but most importantly, even though parents and other people may have screwed it up for you before, now that you know its all up to you to change for the better. nobody or nothing is going to fix it. only you can. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): Perhaps you should explore a spirtual relationship with God and he will help you deal with all your anger issues. You can't change your past, but you can change how it affects your future. And right now you're letting it infect and corrupt your future. Pick up a Bible, start attending church and you will see a difference in how you view your life, past and present. I wish you the best.
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reader, acornalien +, writes (31 July 2007):
I was just like this with my fiance about two years ago. I had the same issues but with my dad. I was angry all the time. Actually the only time I wasn't is when I was at work. Than I realized it was him that made me angry all the time and it made me focus on the bad things in my life and in the past. I soon after broke it off and moved on with my life. I met the most amazing person that is more suited for me. I never get angry anymore. I use to think that angry was who I was, but it wasn't and isn't. Not necessarily that it is your fiance that is doing this to you. I just thought it was interesting to see someone else feel exactly like I did.
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