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writes:Hello, this is a rather straight forward question, it may be considered slightly immature but please be honestwell theres this girl I know who lives in a city quite far from me in europe, we was talking on the phone and what not when she said to me, 'oh yeah I've had enough of the social scene in this city, I think the reason why you (me) didnt make too many friends and I can tell, is because your a nice guy, too many people are a******* here'I am intending on going to her city and she was like 'oh you can stay here.....if you want and feel free to call me anytime'it was a reasonobly short convo I had with her but maybe I am being over analytical1) do you think its possible that she likes me? 2) its a stereotype that girls do not like 'nice guys' or find them desirable ladies do you think this is true? 3) why do women go for the 'bad boy' type then only start whining and crying about it when it all turns sour 4) should i be more of a 'unpleasant character' in order to get more girls?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2012): For the most part, girls are not attracted to "nice guys" if we're talking about nice guys who are too predictable, available, soft, etc. Women like confidence and a good sense of humor as opposed to guys who are unsure of themselves and obsessively ponder whether or not a girl likes them. You need to project confidence and make a decision; insecurity is very unattractive to a woman because men are supposed to lead, take risks, and go to the beat of their own drum. You don't have to be pushy or overbearing in order to make up for your insecurities, but just be cool and calm, show interest without being clingy or needy.
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