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How long does it take for a man to decide if he can fall in love with someone he has met recently?

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Question - (5 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How long does it take for a man to decide if he can fall in love with someone he has met recently?

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A male reader, IHateWomanBeaters United States +, writes (6 May 2010):

IHateWomanBeaters agony auntWhat are the cirucmstances which you met her under?

Did you save her life or she save your life in a multi-day/week struggle for survival?

Did you bear your soul and she bear hers to you in some traumatic event?

Did something extreme happen where her personality and your personality would be totally and utterly exposed for eachother to see?

If the answer is no, you are NOT in love and you are judging by her skin.

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A male reader, IHateWomanBeaters United States +, writes (6 May 2010):

IHateWomanBeaters agony auntMen are not capable of falling in love, for real, based off of looks alone.

That is a fairy tale and a myth.

We are easily infatuated by incredibly beautiful women, yes.

Never in love.

You cannot be in love with what you do not know.

My dad was instantaneously infatuated with this one woman he moved next to when going to MIT. She was a GORGEOUS woman. He was stunned and taken aback by how beautiful she really was.

He started talking to her and then she started talking about "niggers" and how they are ruining everything.

He immediately stopped talking to her and lost all interest.

That is infatuation, not love.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (6 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntA man can fall in love instantly when he see's a beautiful woman.It could be under a few seconds .Some may take longer.

Men are capable of falling in love by the first look or impressions.

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