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writes:Me and my husband have a good sex life, well, normally anyway. His latest suggestion shocked me, however.When I was about to get into bed with him he blurted out about how he'd like to make a movie with "hot guy-on-guy action" in it, starring himself and a "hot guy of your choice".I said no, it doesn't turn me on, but he said "What woman wouldn't be turned on by two hot guys getting off with one another! Blokes like seeing girl-on-girl action, so fair's fair isn't it??"I've told him no, but he's insistent about it, and I worry about his sexuality... please help.Ironically, though, he's never shown any sexual interest in guys before, so why's he like this - talking to him gets nowhere?thanks, Joanne
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Joanne, i think your hubby is bisexual. he has an unhealthy desire to be with another man and the vid is just an excuse. please do not let him trap you. he will make you feel guilty and maybe you will give in to his desire. bUt you will be opening up a can of worms that will in all likelihood end your marriage.
if he is indeed bi, how do you continue?
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reader, Kayla123 +, writes (14 April 2009):
Hya hun not sure if this will help! I would be a bit worried if my fella requested some action with another guy! Was it to be just him and another guy or did he want you involved as well? Yea ur defo right though it dose seem ok for girl on girl action, just dont think i could handle seeing my fella with another and lyk u i would be questoning his sexuality. Only you know what ur willing to put up with and accept in ur relationship and if this dosent feel right for you make it known! I think you are right to have these concernes. Good Luck x
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