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writes: just how wrong is it for someone to be in a 10 year relationship with their brothers ex-wive,they were devoriced befor the relationship started,and do love each other very much to last 10 years. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI will try and be more detailed,she being the ex-wife is the one confused.She said its who i am being the brother.She has taken some things and moved home with mom,Wants to remain friends and still talk.I on the other hand don't know what to do now.She hasen't worked in months,I have always provided for us,Pay all bills mine and hers.I am in love and don't want to lose her,so i do what needs to be done.She still as of right now has no job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): Okay, I'm confused about who is upset and what the problem is. I'll answer the general question, though.
In my opinion, there's nothing inherently wrong with being in love with, dating, or marrying a brother's ex-wife. The brother and wife obviously decided they didn't love each other or want to be together any more. When they divorced, they were free to their separate ways. I know some people might have a problem with the fact that you're all from the same family, but that's their own hangup.
If the brother or ex-wife feels bothered by it, they must still have some feelings for the former spouse, in which case, I'd say you do have a problem.
Hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): I don't know and she won't say,Maby she just wants another man i haven't rulrd that out either.All i know is she said ,I am leaving you and moved out.
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Still confused about what the issue is - are you just generally having problems with your relationship with her?
Her daughter (I assume your brother's daughter) is right to say she is from a broken home if you are not her father as her parents did seperate many years ago?
It must be hard for her to cope with two kids that perhaps resent your relationship with their mother - is it this that's affecting you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell now the women seems to be having trouble with who he is she says.daughter from marriage now with child and will not hesitate to say she comes from broken home,son stays in trouble,they live with dad.I love the women and fight to keep hope alive in the relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBefor I went after the ex I spoke with the brother and told him so.He did not say stay away.We still speak today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): I don't think it's really anyone else's business whether you should go after your brother's ex or not. Ultimately, it's how you think and feel.
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (10 September 2006):
After ten years I can really understand what the issue is and why the question?
I guess the family and everyone else are used to it by now, so can't see why it would be wrong or an issue at all?
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