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writes:How do you get over someone who kinda started to mean a lot to you if you were in a relationship when you met them? Then, you decide to end it because you realize it's not healthy or sane to care for someone when you're already spoken for. But this person keeps running through your mind, and you miss them. I know, aunts, self control. But surely some of you have some great ways to forget that don't involve replacing the loss with another body?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Are you still spoken for? It's okay for care for other people when spoken for. It's not cheating. What is, crossing boundaries. How about not forgetting, but appreciating the opportunity you had to care for them. Trying to forget is something for many people, there's not enough alcohol that can cause someone to permanently forget.
I'm single, but if I dated or got married again, I still appreciate the experience I had with my ex's. It's okay to do that, and if I find someone, it's not replacing old experience, I'd have the opportunity for a new one.
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