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How to be/look hot? (As if that was possible...)

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Question - (7 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2008)
A male Portugal age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I'd like that the "beholder" liked me... it's a girl of the same age as I, we both have a lot in common despite she likes dark chocolate while my favourite is the white one. Anyway, we are friends, not since that much time, but I got in love for her and I think she doesn't know that, however I know that she likes someone -- she shared that "love of her" with me... She likes him because, let's see, "He's so cute!". I know that I can't change myself but... yeah.

I am so frustrated-- what should I do?... She is from another school. She is a very good student and she's hot. She thinks that (I don't know why she thinks this) "ugly people with ugly people and pretty people with pretty people". I think that's stupid, but it must be the argument she made up once the one she likes dates out with an ugly girl.

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A female reader, katatonik United States +, writes (7 December 2008):

katatonik agony auntIt sounds like she is pretty shallow, actually. Instead of trying to change yourself for someone who is only pretty on the outside, why not wait for a girl who loves you for yourself. I don't think this girl is that person, and unfortunately for you, if she's talking about her crush to you then she probably only sees you as a friend. Let her go and find someone who does appreciate you. Good luck =]

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