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How should I get this break up over with?

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Question - (5 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok well my boyfriend hasnt replied me for months i want to break it off with him i think he feels the same cause he sent me a message saying we need to talk and i replied i know i am storing his stuff over summere and am taking it to his house with my mum, who doesnt know we are dating, in 2 days then after my mum leaves we will meet to "talk"

but im one who gets nervous easily should i ask him to tell me what he wants to say over fb to avoid tears etc and then we will hopefully just be friends when we drop his stuff or should i wait and talk to him in person although its pretty much clear we are over ?

all answers appriciated thanks

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A female reader, Fate100percent United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2011):

Why doesn't your mum know you are dating?

Did you mean he hasn't replied to you in MONTHS?? What??

Just go there, say you don't want to be with him anymore, (if your don't?), say here's your stuff, and hope we can still be friends (if you even want him as a friend?) Don't do it over fb, that's really bad!

Why haven't you talked for months? He doesn't sound like a boyfriend or even friend I would want!

Find someone who appreciates you and treats you well x

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A male reader, aebniala Canada +, writes (6 September 2011):

Its seams to be pretty clear to me. Put his stuff in the dumpster if he does not pick it up in the next 24 hours.

When he come for it, have that discussion if needed.

Find somebody else, he is not worth it. Month's without new's. That bad.

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