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writes:How do you know when someone says "I Love You" they mean it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): It's also in their actions.Little things they do unsubconciously without always knowing that are gestured towards you, initiating towards you. Not necessarily vocally admitting "I Love You", but if/when they do, you know that they do genuinely care about you.Try not to confuse courteous behaviour with being in love with someone. It all depends on how well you know the person!For example, a man and woman who know each other very well walk together beside a road with busy traffic. The man walks alongside the road, closest to it, saying, "My mother always told me to never let a woman walk close to the road, for their protection."This man could be a real gentleman all-round with everybody of every sex, or, he may well be emphasizing his gentlemanly behaviour for the sake of the woman's approval and admiration.So... "I love you"...Determine the intention in which it was made.
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