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51-59,
*lskitten
writes:HiHow do you get someone to slow down that you have recently started 'seeing'?If they are off on a tangent wanting to tell their children about you, wanting you to meet them.I feel really confused at the moment about it all because i am petrified of us getting into something too quick and it going tits up basically and me hurting him again in the future because he turns out to not be the sort of person i want to be with. I need to get to know the new him, obviously he has changed.He is my ex husband from 16 yrs ago and we have both had 2 kids with other people since we split. We met up again out the blue 3 weeks ago.Friday night just gone things got a bit heated, but didnt go too too far, but we are dying to get out hands on each other i must admit! And we have the chance to be alone from saturday to sunday coming. Is it best to slow it right down?C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): I would definately take it slowly, keep an element of excitement about this relationship and also keep something to look forward to.
Its important that this man doesnt think he can return to exactly where things left off and how can you tell he has changed after just 3 weeks? Be careful, have fun but dont get too attached just yet. Its a bad idea to tell the children just yet too, why put them through you splitting again if the worst was to happen? Wish you happiness x
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reader, michellebeth +, writes (24 September 2007):
people are always saying u only live once and its true , stop worrying and enjoy your saturday night , if you cant keep your hands off each other that just shows theres a good amount of fire left from the past. why denie your body of the thing it wants most.
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