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writes: There is this girl that is said to like me, and I am not particularly sure if it is true or not. How can I ask her out if she does like me, and how do I find out if she likes me in the first place? Reply to this Question
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reader, the_used +, writes (21 November 2005):
you will never find out for yourself if you don't ask and don't be shy. If she doesn't like you there are plenty of girls out there and don't be scared of ppl making fun of you for being turned down. She might like you so i say go for it
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reader, theagonyuncle +, writes (2 November 2005):
Don't be losing out on something you want. This life is set to try us. One day, walk up to her with your head held high and say 'can I borrow you for one evening and take you out, treat you properly and like a gentleman'? she will melt in your arms. Ask her and don't lose out before someone else gets there. She obviously likes you otherwise you wouldn't have heard that she does. Good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2005): You don't have to be sure if someone likes you or not to ask them out. How would someone like you before they got to know you? Come up with a good place for a first date, someplace quiet where you can share things about yourselves and you may find out that you have some things in common. I was always that way in high school, wanted to make sure someone liked me before I asked them out, but it made me miss out on a lot of things. Don't be like that, take a chance. Her saying "no" is no worse than you not asking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2005): Just go for it. If you're really anxious about it, you could do the whole chain thing where you get a friend to ask her friend to ask her if it's really true that she likes you and so on and so forth. Really it's no big deal if you just come straight out and ask her out. Even if she says no you could probably still be friends and then who knows...?
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reader, lyndsey +, writes (1 November 2005):
Just go for it, if you dont ask you dont get. life is full of rejection so if she says no look at it as practice,tell her you like her and would like to take her out somewhere nice, ask her when noone's around and you will feel more confident. good luck
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