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30-35,
*aleem
writes:If you think that your gf is possibly interested in someone else how can she be approached without getting her angry?I tried talking to her nicely about it but she just gets angry and tells me that she doesnt wanna talk to me right now and she'll call me back later.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Saleem +, writes (12 August 2008):
Saleem is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Superrrshawna,
well she has always been short temperred, i caught her lying to me a couple times about minor stuff nothing major.
She always tells me where shes going and whatnot but she doesnt tell me about who she chats with online or through sms.
Recently she has kicked a fuss for me looking through her phone (she used to go through mine but stopped) and all of a sudden she doesnt want me to look at her phone anymore.
also, recently she doesnt have sex with me anymore, never gives me a bj even when i ask..
She says that its because we used to fight alot(all that stopped now and the relationship is good, no more fighting) and also that she is very stressed out lately..
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 it sounds either like you are being too insecure and it is upsetting her OR she is trying to hide something and is being defensive.
you haven't really given enough background for me to help you further than that.
if you can't bring it up amicably in person or over the phone, consider writing a very well thought out letter and personally delivering it to her with a cup of coffee or something and a promise to talk it out later over dinner.
i hope that helps!
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