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writes:When is enough, enough? My b/f's ex girlfriend of 15 years ago still tries to contact him when she comes to town. He says he doesn't know why she won't "move on" and claims he has nothing to do with her. It upsets me when she tries to contact him; he says I should just ignore her. Recently she came home for a reunion and was telling everyone at the pub they used to date and was trying to get some people to track him down so she could see him. I heard about it from the pub owner a couple of weeks later. My b/f didn't even know she was in town that week-end and I believe him. He says he can't do much about it, she knows we are together and have been for 5 years. He just ignores her but I am tempted to contact her myself and tell her to get a life! How do other people deal with this sort of thing?....
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): she probably doesn't know she's out of line. your boyfriend needs to tell her to stop, you speaking to her might just make things worse.
if she doesn't stop get then a restraining order, it might seem like a lot of effort but if it will save your relationship some stress it could be worth it. but i'd recommend him speaking to her about it first.
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