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writes: me and my partner have been together a 10 months im only 20 and half way through our relationship i was so easy going . now he drinks less for me cause i hated that . we see each other practically every day. i seem to want and need all of these things i didnt need before. when im out which isnt often all i think about is him. i dont like him going out. i do have reasons not to trust him , which we are trying to resolve. we have arguements because i feel he doesnt show me he cares when he should. my answer to all our arguements is fine this isnt working lets brake up before he was like ok babe no , now he says im sick of you threatening me. breaking up is by far the last thing i want but, i get so fustrated with him i diont know what else to do. how do i stop myself getting upset and thinking about things all night? all day ? its making me go mad all i can think about is him please help. Reply to this Question |
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reader, RedRobin +, writes (16 January 2006):
 First find other activties to occupy your mind. Remember you can't stop anyone from doing anything that they want to do. You can only stop or change yourself. Sometimes when folks are arguing the first thing they do is think of something hurtful to say to make the other party see their point. Its some sort of control. So, I say this to you go on the internet and do some research on jealousy, it will help you believe me.
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