New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244969 questions, 1084319 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

How do I solve the problem I have with my teacher?

Tagged as: Forbidden love<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (19 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2008)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I m in love with my tution teacher who teaches me Chemistry. she is 39yrs of age and i m only 18.I love her but i affraid of telling her that she could even tell this to my parents.i think i m the best and most liked student of her.but she dont know about my Selfless Love towards her. What should I do now so that i can expose myself in front of her indirectly.We r an Indian and I dont think that an Indian women having 4 daughters could even think of other than her husband. What should i DO NOW ? plz TELL ME.. i M IN big need od help.PLZZZZZZZZZZZZ

View related questions: my teacher

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

If your 18, she might not need to tell your parents.

I would never recommend bottling it up. It creates pressure on you, and it's hard to give up on her. It then becomes obsessive.

I suggest that you tell her when you leave school. That way you are technically allowed to have a relationship with her, but don't expect anything. This is because as you said she is married with 4 kids, but it gets it off your chest and you feel better about it afterwards.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

She is your teacher, she is married, she has kids. Do not bother this woman. You can continue to love her, but do not tell her how you feel. She can't love you because she loves somebody else. She is your teacher, she is there to teach and you the student are there to learn. She has a job to do and so do you. If you tell her your feelings she will be embarrased, she will reject you and probably tell your family and the school authorities as well. Forget about it, just be safe in the knowledge that you've fallen in love with a wonderfull woman, and one day you will meet another one who you can marry and settle down with and love with no problem at all.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "How do I solve the problem I have with my teacher?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312351999964449!