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writes:I'm a 17 year old boy still at school and have never been kissed or have had a girlfriend and it's getting me down. I am able to talk to girls relatively easy but most of the time they never give me the chance to either by sitting in a big group or ignoring me. I don't think I'm bad looking but I've noticed that girls don't look at me either like glance at me in the halls. I really like one girl but she only really seemed to talk to me as a last resort and I always had to initiate it. We could have a great talk and have a good laugh but afterwards she would just ignore me like she didn't know me. I'm always concious of what I'm doing and what I look like and keep running myself down like it's all my fault. I don't really have many female aquaintences and when I talk I mainly try to make jokes and they see me as a funny guy, how can I change this, make girls notice and want to speak to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice I always smile at her in the hallways but she never returns the gesture and I don't sit near any girls in my class so I don't have much opportunities for a conversation
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reader, abercrombie  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 hmm, well for MY attention you would just have to act sweet and become my friend. ask me about teachers i did or didnt like and walk me to some classes. maybe ask me to a football game as friends and go from there. dont brag to much about yourself. and dont try to act cool by saying you had sex last night with so and so. major turn off for me. all girls are different, but maybe making a myspace or facebook and adding some friends from school would be a good idea, make sure you add all your guy friends and then look up girls name and when you friend request them you could say "i would like to get to know you better" or ssomething along that line... but never get so close to a girl she thinks of you as a 'big brother'. just enough to where she thinks of you as a friend, nothing more. and be sure you talk to her in school. as for that girl you like and talk to, maybe you could stop joking so much and become a little more serious. after 3 or 4 really good chats ask her for or phone number, text her. maybe call her in a couple of days. see if she wants to go somewhere maybe the movies or a football game.
welll i hope i helped I would love to know how this turns out... E-mail me at [email address blocked] and make sure you tell me that your the one who asked this question well
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