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How do I know if I'm still in the running?

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Question - (21 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, *oogie4 writes:

I am at a loss here. I have tried. I recently heard talking about how she wants to work with this other guy just so they can "make out". Now, I'm not naive enough to think that she's not thinking about other guys, that's obvious that she is...but how do I know if I'm still in the running? I get calls from her like every 4-5 days (her just "checking" in to see how I am.)

So, trust me, I'm not putting effort into this anymore, but I would like to know how I could actually get her to talk about all of this. I just want to be grown up about things, and the fact she calls me for 2 minute calls, yet could go on all day about with her GF about how she didn't even know what to wear to meet this guy, tells me something. I just don't the fact that I feel available to her, yet she's fine to play the field.

I'm not ready to move on quite yet..

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A male reader, CaptainObvious United States +, writes (21 December 2010):

CaptainObvious agony auntYou aren't in the running.

Seriously.

It doesn't matter if you move on or not - she already has.

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