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How do I get her to tell me?

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Question - (2 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *reengotg writes:

I have been with my gf for about 5 months alredy and everything is good just that everytime she is feeling sad I want her to tell me but she never lets me how do I get her to open up to me and tell me what's wrong with her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

Just be patient. I know what she is going through, it took me a long time to open up to my now husband. I used to have past issues in my head, and get very upset at some of the memories. Just give her lots of hugs, cuddles, love and attention and she will open up to you in time. BUT when she does please dont be judgemental. Give her confidence and support. Constructive help rather than destructive.

take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

Just be patient. I know what she is going through, it took me a long time to open up to my now husband. I used to have past issues in my head, and get very upset at some of the memories. Just give her lots of hugs, cuddles, love and attention and she will open up to you in time. BUT when she does please dont be judgemental. Give her confidence and support. Constructive help rather than destructive.

take care

xx

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (2 November 2007):

rcn agony auntshe will when she's comfortable in doing so, until then just be there to comfort her when she is sad.

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