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writes:My fiance is turning 28 and I am turning 21 in the next couple of days. Problem is he has done everything we could possibly think of sexually and he doesn't understand I haven't and want to try them out. I'm talking about normal every day things like positions, whip cream, etc. What can I do to encourage him to experiment on me? How can I convince him?(Mod note: Please do not use all capitals next time, or your question will be unapproved.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry about capital letter thing... its that my system at work only lets me type in capital letter if not it wont accpet what i type.. i am so used to it i did not even notice.. I will double check next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Hmmm not sure what I would do in this case. I mean sex is not the most important thing but it is important. Also it seems like he doesnt care about meeting your needs. It is not desperate to want to be intimate with someone you love, that was cruel to even say. I would be rethinking this relationship if I were you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUNFORTUNATELY, I HAVE ALREADY TALKED TO HIM BUT HE SEEMS TO NOT REALLY CARE/ OR NOT WANT TO TRY..
SEX.. I ALWAYS WANT IT, BUT HE DOESNT!! HE SAYS HE IS TIRED/ DOESNT FEEL GOOD... OR IF NOT HE WILL PUSH ME AWAY..
HE HAS TOLD ME BEFORE THAT I ACT DESPERATE BUT I ACTUALLY JUST WANT HIM... IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK???
WHEN EVER I TELL HIM HE JUST SAYS THAT HE DOESNT LIKE THAT AND DOES NOT WANT TO EVEN TALK ABOUT IT..
WTD???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Explain to him that you want to experiment, to add some spice into your sex lives. In my experience most men wont complain that you want to add to the sex or have even more sex lol. Just be open, honest, and straightforward about what you want.
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