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writes:My husband and I were separated but now we are trying to get back together. We have children together and we have been together more than 10 years. I found out that while we were separated that my husband told a woman he slept with that she was the best in bed after she told him that he with the best in bed. I did not date, let alone have sex with anyone while we were separated. I wish I had never found out but since I have I don't know how to deal with it. He was very disrespectful to me I feel since we were still legally married at the time and the woman knew that and I don't know what to do. We had and have a lot of problems and this just adds to it. I feel that he shows very bad judgment a lot of the time.
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reader, Cheeks +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Maybe they said thet to eachother, maybe not but maybe you only heard about it because someone is jealous you two are trying to get back together. You said she knew he was married so I would assume that word got out because she wanted it to. But you say your husband was very disrespectful towards you and you two have been having problems enough to separate. And while he was gone he slept with another woman. Are you sure you really want to get back together? He sounds like a real winner. You survived without him while he was gone so you know you can do it again. But if you are determinded to work this out then you must disregard it altogether. Otherwise it will eat at you. But I think they were both talking out of thier necks when/if that was ever said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionClarification: She said that he was the best lover that she has been with and he said...
"...you are the best lover I've been with..."
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Well, if someone tells a guy that he is nice or good at something, a gentleman will compliment back. Pure courtesy.
I think that you shouldn't be thinking about a sex contest. ther will always be people who are better lover than you or him. But it can be a nice purpose if you want to find new ways to express love, to spice that intimate comunication, to get a new begining with him.
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