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writes:Well i have this friend she is fun out goin athletic pretty and everything but she cant get a boyfriend for some reason. I mean she has had lil boyfriends in the past but no one serious. I've been telling her that having a boyfriend is so great thee's nothing more heart filling then that but she says she doesn't care why is this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): I disagree that a boyfriend is the best thing in the world. Especially not at your age!
When I was your age I was way more concerned with my career and with college. Women don't even reach their sexual peaks until in their 30's. I mean she is so young! leave her alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Sounds like she is happy in her own skin - good for her! I wish there were more people out there that could deal with being alone, then there would not be so many sorry excuses for relationships.
Let your friend be, when the time comes that she wants someone more permanant in her life, im sure she will know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Maybe she's actually happy the way she is not every one has to be a smug married or coupled up all the time, sure your not just jealous of her freedom and wanting her to be just like you .
And if she is feeling lonely how do you think your making her feel banging on about how wonderful and lovey you and your guy are, she's bound to start defending her situation and claim she's fine , how about you think about what your actually saying to her its fine to want her to be happy but maybe she already is.
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reader, clh91  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 some people don't feel like they want a partner coz they have other prospects and goals they want to achieve before they look for a boyfriend.
sometimes being single saves you heartache.
but then they miss out on the love from their partner.
maybe she's just waiting for the right man but doesn't want to let on that she wants one.
she might want a boyfriend deep down but coz im presuming u have a boyfriend that she doesn't want to mention it coz ur too high on cloud 9.
hope i helped :)
feel free to mail message me about anything if you wanna chat
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