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How can you give a good handjob without "getting it out"

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Question - (14 June 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I gave a guy a handjob for the first time yesterday, and tried to take into consideration the advice I had been given on here, to go up and down the shaft with quite strong grip. However the guy still had his trousers on so I couldn't really do this as there wasn't space. Instead I kind of had to just stroke it abit but the space limited even this. Firstly, do you think the guy would have been dissapointed? and secondly, how can u give a good hand job with out actually getting a persons penis out?

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A female reader, Zompire United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2009):

Zompire agony auntWell....So my first one was in the cinema(sitting at the back obv)and he was obv naw going to get it out there so i just liked my had and put it down and it was easy no not impossible unless he wears Cameltoe jeans looool

Goood Luck Mateee ;) x

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A male reader, jordee United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

hi im 15

n a male

i wouldnt mind getting the inside of my pants messy for someone givin me a handjob one of ma ex gave me one on a car journy bk from blackpool we were togeather at his time erm.. my mum doesnt really like sexual contact but she maged it give me one with ma sis ma dad n mum in the car i wasnt reallly arsed about the inside of ma pant gettin messy like it been said it only an orgasm is an orgasm so wat my pants can be cleaned i enjoy mine alot!!

hopes that some help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008):

I am still a bit confused as to why you wouldn't be able to take it out of his trousers, any chance of enlightenment?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008):

thanks anonymous reader you were very helpful

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

My Boyfriend doesn't really mind getting the inside of his trousers 'messy' as NikitaDisraeli described, after all an orgasm is an orgasm. Obviously its better if you can get it out because there is more freedom for movement but sometimes this isn't possible for whatever reason. I don't think the guy would have been disappointed because after all, he had a girl touching his penis and he would have understood about the trousers-on situation. A method you could try if you can't 'get it out' and have difficulty giving a hand job with the trousers on, is (after making out for a while- getting heated etc) sit him on the edge of the bed or wherever, straddle him (legs either side of his hips) and grind yourself against him up and down. The rubbing alone and the mimicking of sex should be enough to get him off and it can also feel good for you if you are wearing loose trousers. And the bonus of this? It can be done without getting it out. As long as he's aroused beforehand, getting him really hot under the colour should be fairly easy by taking this approach. Worked for my boyfriend ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

Well, why would you give him a handjob without getting it out?

My advice would be to go somewhere private, get it out and do it there. It's really not possible to give a good handjob whilst the guy has his trousers on and done up. Also, it gets the insede of his trousers really messy, if you know what I mean. Not good at all.

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