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How can we pleasure each other without having sex?

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Question - (19 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2007)
A female United States age 22-25, *m_still_daddys_lil_girl writes: and one of my really close guy friends started talkin bout sex..but i already decided not now how can i pleasure him w/ out having sex w/ him? and how can he pleasure me w/out gettin me pregnant?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007):

Well to be honest i think you're a bit young but if you fell it's right and you're comfortable with it then it's ok.

This is probably just experimenting because you're curious and want some experience but make sure that when you do it for real it's with someone you really trust and care about or you'll regreat it later. The first time is always akward and uncomfortable so make sure you're comfortable with the person.

Things you can try are:

Setting the boy head (im from england so i don't if you'll know what that means). You put his 'u-no-what' in your mouth and basically suck it and move your mouth up and down. Boys love this! Don't use teeth(very painful)

He can go down on you. make sure the boy really wants to do this because tit can get messy! If he gets the right spot (it took my boyfriend many months!) it can be extemly pleasurable and even overwhelming!

He can finger you. The ideas in the name! Basically he puts one or two fingers up there and moves it up and down. Also very pleasurable if he gets the right spot!

Also a very passionate kiss can turn me on!

Warning: All of these can create heated feelings and lead to sex. If you're defenatly not ready than stop before it gets too serious. Good luck!

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A female reader, so_in_love United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2007):

Theres always oral sex and masurbation, but sometimes that is still classed as an act of sex, in which case it is illegal until you are 16 here, not too sure about America though, I think it varies in different states??

Anyway, think of what you're doing first, and make sure if anything goes further you're safe.

Take care.


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