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How can we explore role playing?

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Question - (9 April 2021) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2021)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

We're a couple who've been together for 4.5 years now, we met in October 2016.

We got engaged in August 2019, pre-coronavirus.

I love her, she's a really great woman, she's already got dual citizenship of EU / UK (she's Belgian and been here since 2014, from what I've learnt, she can have dual citizenship) and that's just after Brexit.

Recently, in our relationship, my fiancee has said to me she wants to explore role-play but has no idea how to do so (she's done very light Google-ing, but roleplay wasn't related to how to do so sexually, and we couldn't find a Wikihow on it...).

What are good basic roleplays we can do when we have sex that aren't too extreme and not likely to cause harm or upset (fortunately, my fiancee does not have a cuckold fantasy, well, the female equivalent of one, in fact my fiancee hates that sort of thing) and only require minimal equipment like costumes etc.?

We're both 100% girly, not the "lipstick lesbian/butch dyke" stereotype some people have of lesbians, and both like sexy lingerie (occasionally sports bras/running briefs as sexy lingerie) when we're having sex. My girlfriend hates it if anyone assumes that of her.

My basic question is, for a couple inexperienced in roleplaying, what can we do on a budget (we've set ourselves a minimal budget), food included, to have a great sexy roleplay?

I've worn a sexy nurse costume for my girlfriend, but I didn't roleplay... it was just as a turn-on for her, and she's done the same thing for me.

I was considering buying a traffic warden uniform with skirt from ebay, it's an actual genuine one that's been worn, would that be a start?

Our sex life has been good and romantic, but it'd be what you call "vanilla", and we want to expand it a bit more with roleplaying, although we're never doing threesomes or cuckold etc. - roleplaying is the limit for us.

If you could help I'd really be grateful, since neither of us know the first thing on role-playing during sex.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2021):

Here you go female 36-40

My wife is mostly in the closet bi. I showed her how to change our kitchen faucet. Now we have two good ones. She'll show up at the door with a bucket of tools "Emma from Emma's Plumbing" She'll call me June Cleavage (spoofing June Cleaver)-- "Mrs Cleavage, I guess Ward is too busy at the office... How long has it been dripping?" Then she'll swap it out while telling dirty jokes. We and up scissoring on the floor, then her naked standing over subservient me on my knees giving a demanding Emma oral.

And before she leaves she demands $100.

She is the most fun wife to girl watch with at the beach.

One time she got called out "both of you checking me out.. I get him doing it."

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