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writes:I have just had twin girls and found out that my husbund has been cheating on me for the last 2 months. I dont know what to do. he says he is sorry he bashed the door down to speak to me how can i trust him again? xx thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): Many professionals in therapy claim that trust can be refound and marriages can heal from affairs with a lot of work from both parties. Family is worth fighting for! Both of you have to be willing to repair what is broken. Get into a counsellor to help you through this. It is very hard to do without insight. not sure how you found out, did he confess it or someone tell on him...that makes a difference on his part, how willing he is to put forth effort.
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reader, accused  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Hmm well bashing the door down to talk to you, is not what I would call being able to hold your temper... When someone has to hit or bash things to get another person to listen there is def a problem. All I'm going to say is, if he's been cheating for 2 months and all the sudden you found out and he's ready to stop doing it? What would have happened if you hadn't found out? He would still be doing it... Sounds to me he's only sorry for getting caught! You deserve much better than that, and believe me the trust is gone. Unless he's willing to accept the "where have you been" etc line everytime he walks thru the door, then let it go now... Best of luck
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