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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Whenever someone asks me out, I say no. There's nothing wrong with the person but for some reason, I just automatically put this armor up and reject them. What can I do to stop rejecting men who are absolutely perfect? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): You probably are afraid of getting into a committed relationship. You see these guys as having no flaws and it scares you to have nothing to cause you to end the relationship at some point. Just give them a chance! Go on one date! Take it one day at a time, ya know? Don't think about it as your future husband. It's just one date. And then if you have a good time, try another date. Just don't take things too seriously and then if it gets serious eventually, well, then it was meant to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Maybe you don't really want a perfect man. Perhaps you want someone rough around the edges that you can take care of and 'fix'.
That's the way I feel.
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