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writes:I've been with my boyfriend a month now and its getting to the stage where we are starting to gett into sexual stuff. We havent had sex and dont plan to for at least another few months yet. I have had sex before and done everything with my ex. My boyfriend is a bit older and has had a few sexual partners. H'es started doing stuff to me however i cant bring myself to do anything back. Its not i dont want to, i wannna make him happy n like return the favour. But i get really nervous in actually un-zipping his trousers. My ex knew this and used to try encourage me a bit more which helped alot. I sorta told my boyfriend about this, but i dont think he really got the hint. WHat can i do to make myself less nervous and any ideas why im feeling like this?
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reader, EllenMF  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 i agree with laura you really gotta just end up speaking to them, men seriously need to learn how to pick up hints, but thats not in this century.... maybe never
its normal to be nervous, so don't worry too much about it
when you feel nervous think of how much you care about him, rather than focusing on being nervous... anyways hope you find the answer your looking for
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 Different man have different perceptions. If you get nervous, don't unzip his pants for those pants can come down without your help.
The males don't speak in hints. Tell them directly in plain English what you want. This is the only language they can understand. LOL!
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