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writes:ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 3 months. and for about the first 2 months we were smiling, kissing, laughing ALL the time. but now we dont really do that as much. she doesnt seem that happy anymore, and i really want her to be happy cuz i love her, and i dont want to lose her. so how can i make her happy again like she use to be?
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reader, Johnnyboy03 +, writes (15 March 2009):
 You can't make someone else happy. Her happiness is her own, and although you can influence her feelings, only she can be happy or not.
What you see happening is the end of the "honeymoon" period of your relationship. This tends to happen, generally, 2-3 months after the start of a new serious relationship. it's very common. If she is the type that is only into the high of a new relationship, then it won't last long, but otherwise you have nothing really to worry about unless you push her, and always ask "what's wrong?" Or you become over-sensitive, and are constantly hanging on everything she does.
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reader, Shadowplay  +, writes (15 March 2009):
She wouldnt be with you now if she wasnt happy, it may not be as exciting as at first, but if she was bored or uninterested she would have made this clear and wouldnt have stayed with you!
she must like you for you, or maybe its on its way to passing, maybe that is it you cannot force something. hope it goes okay whatever happens!
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