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writes: I always have this problem. When I meet a guy, I get bored after 2 months being with him. What should I do? Spice up the relationship, but how? Or, should I break up with him, because I know he is not the guy I want to be with? Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 the problem is you want something more than what youve found in men already. i use to get board after a month but then i found someone who ive been with a year. you just havent found what you wanted yet, why not get to know people first b4 jumping in 2 a ralationship that might help. it doesnt need spiceing up it needs the right person in the ralationship.
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reader, ariel + ♥, writes (12 July 2006):
 having to work at a relationship is not a sign that that a relationship is wrong but a sign that you don't take eachother for granted.It always pays to do things that makes him happy and at the same time let him know what makes you happy so he can do more of it and in return it will make him feel appreciated.
But if he is not the guy you want to be with well then why are you wasting his time.
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reader, sleepychap +, writes (12 July 2006):
Talk about it with him! I think communication is underrated these days, why suffer in silence? Bring it up with him, tell him how you feel and discuss it. Maybe you can both bring ideas to the table. If its the sex that you wanted to spice up, maybe both write down 10 sexual experiences that you want to do, and then go through each list one at a time?
If you are sure he isn't the one though, then there seems little point in leading him on and hurting him more than needed in the future. Then again, maybe you fear commitment, and you feel like you cant settle down with just one man? Have a long think to yourself what you feel the problem is and then DISCUSS it with your partner.
Hope you get this sorted out.
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reader, Lisho +, writes (12 July 2006):
 Your bound to get abit bored after a while but try and give it a try even when u feel bored. I knws its all good me sayn this but doing its a different thing, but im kinda talking frm experience.
im really gld that i made it work in my relationship cuz i realised it wasnt so much me being bored it was me just being Comfortable with him.
be Spontaneous and encourage him to be aswell, that will make the relationship feel fresh and new. go out and do
different exciting things with eachother cuz then ur learn new things about the person.
you carnt keep movin as soon as you get bored cuz then your never learn how to cope with it and its probably going to happen in every relationship you have. You might aswel start nw and give it a go.
good luck
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